Ways to Find a Surrogate Mother

 

While planning about the process of surrogacy, one of the biggest questions a couple has is - where to find a surrogate mother for the process of surrogacy? If you are facing a similar situation, read on!

The fact is, like so many situations in life, there is no right answer on how to find a healthy substitute mother. However, for your convenience, some of the ways to find a healthy mother are mentioned below. 

Using a Surrogacy Agency

Out of various options available, choosing a surrogacy or egg donations’ agency is the best way to find a substitute mother. There is at least one agency available in every city, which makes it easy for couples to select the one nearby. In order to make the process of searching easy and comfortable, you may also choose the online option. Any reputed agency can be searched online by using the keywords such as “surrogacy agency” etc. However, in order to make sure that the mother you have selected is healthy, it is important for you to check the credibility and policies of the site.

Independent Matching

In order to cut the expenses, a lot of couples choose independent matching. Often, intended parents place ads on surrogacy classified boards online or ask a close friend, family or relative to do the favor. Although, this process is more affordable as compared to hiring an agency, a lot of parents face issues such as health problems. In fact, in some cases many surrogates also ask for the custody of the child after a few years or just after giving birth to the baby.  This may also ruin relationships of the couple or of the mother in case you have chosen a relative, friend or family member.

Matching Through a Lawyer or Doctor

Because the process of surrogacy requires legalization, a lot of lawyers or doctors also help intended parents to search surrogates. Sometime such services are provided at an extra fee to the current services the parents are taking part in, or just as a favor. 

No matter what your choice is, always ensure that the surrogate is healthy. Perform medical tests and talk to your doctor before going for the process. Apart from the process of surrogacy, egg donations are another way of having a baby. This process is used in case of infertile partners, single mothers or same sex couples. Consult with your doctor to find out which process suits you the best.